lets talk about sex kids

dont member if i mentioned this before.. but its really odd being a good christian and being in a realtionship.. cos theres the really pure, nto distracted, single person who are completely fufilled by God, and theres the commited, pure again, married, holy wife/husband person.. but how do u get from the one to the other??

obv i myslef an blessed with gorgeous boyfriend, so iv got a handle on some of it.. but like cos obv dont believe in sex before marraige, corse. and want to be really pure and holy u kno. and then u get to where do u draw the line? [dw am not gona be graphic, robin u can relax] had been an area of confusion for me, cos obv ent gona do anything actually sexual, nothing rude or racey here thankyou very much, but just holding hands could be.. odd thing no?

have had a bit of clarity on this issue, a very wise lady told me, that like ur lines is gona be dif for everyone, but the point is u want to be a blessing to the other person, you odnt want to do anything to harm them spiritually, and like later in life u dont want to be havign to explain to ur husband how u did kind of go a bit too far with someone so it isnt all new and special, even tho it wasnt actually 'rude'. there are loads of counter agruments saying this view is contaadicting, but hey. in essence, as i want to do good for robin and to bless him, i dont want to put him in a posision where he later regrets something or like for his future wife to be feeling worried/jealous/selfconsious/sad cos iv taken some of what is hers and is special.. that sounds really over dramatic but kinda true, like im way concious of robins only other and poorly fated realtionship even tho it really isnt a thing, and even tho it wasnt very deep, well nothing like ours..

hmm, i heard someone talking about sex in christian relationships, and generallly anything sexual or even relationships, is that waht u want to do is to leave a deposit of goodness and happiness with them, not something that has be ashamed of, or regreted, or not good. let anything like that be a blessing [in the long term aswell].. think that sums it up pretty well..

have had some waht of an epiphany on this subject, thought id share. sorry to nonechristian singletons, not v relevant huh :)

ok so i have a dream isnt a great song.. but i stand by previous comment

o am happier now for those that were concerned